Listen babes, I’m not gonna sugar coat it. This shit, is not easy. First of all it’s hard to meet women in general because you can’t flat out ask them if they’re gay or bi or into women. But I can give you the one piece of advice that I took and ran with and suddenly found myself knee deep in options for dates and late night rendezvous: STOP LOOKING. I PROMISE you it IS that simple. I know you’re probably sitting there saying, “but I’m not even looking.” no, we all are, just stop. Stop. Because the second you stop looking for your perfect girl, you are free. Free from your minds ideal of who you should be with, free from this notion that maybe the next girl to walk by could be her, free from the nerve wrecking thought that if you just reach out to one more girl maybe the conversation will be perfect and she will be the one. No. She will come when you have the confidence to hold your head up high, exude confidence, happiness and independence. Want for no one and you will love forever.